Hi all..
Long time no post. Sorry for the lag, my trip back to Vancouver last week was a bit all consuming. Quite bizarre being home in October when we last left our house in August. Pool still had toys everywhere, Sam's bed still not made from when we got up that morning on Aug 30th, fully expecting to come home that afternoon. Anyway.. back in Edmonton now.
Monday last week was not so good (the day I left for Vancouver). Madeleine and Dillon had just been re-intubated on the Saturday, and Madeleine starting having problems Monday. She was "DESATing" and "BRADing" every hour most of the day. A DESAT is when her blood oxygen levels drop below 70% (90% is norm), and a BRAD is when her heart rate drops below 100 (normal is 160).
By Monday evening she was BRADing every 15 minutes. (once a day is not really good). The doctors were getting concerned and were troubleshooting with us. They told us they would try a blood transfusion first, then if that did not work by Tuesday morning, they would do a complete blood analysis, including a lumbar puncture, where they draw spinal fluid out from a needle in her spine. They wanted to check for Meningitis, as they could not figure out what was wrong with her. This was particularly devastating, as earlier that day, the parents of the baby next to us in the ICU (Harrison), had been told that Harrison would not make it due to having contracted Meningitis. Harrison had been in the ICU with us from the beginning, and was a week older than our twins.
So we went to sleep on Monday night fearing the worst. Thankfully, the blood transfusion did the trick, and they ruled out Meningitis and did not proceed with any further tests. She continued to have some further ventilator issues on Tuesday, with a bad "leak", where the efficiency of the tube is compromised, but they changed out the ventilator unit to a newer model, and that seemed to resolve the issue. She has not had a single BRAD since Tuesday now, and only a few DESATS that she recovers from quickly. Yay! She is quite the little fighter, and we are very relieved.
Dillon cruised through all of this sleeping and putting on weight. He does, however seem to know when Madeleine is getting all the attention. Every time she DESATS, and the nurses rush over, he does the same thing (to a lesser extent), almost every time. When she got re-intubated last Saturday, he decided he needed to be intubated as well, a few hours later. I guess this twin competitive thing kicks in pretty early!
I realized I have not updated their weights in a while, so here there are. Dillon is now at 2lbs 14oz, almost a full pound heavier than birth weight. (a 48% gain) and Madeleine is 2lbs 1oz, a gain of 10oz (43%). Both are doing well in this area, and are on full feeds, meaning they can ingest the volume of breast milk they should be getting. They get fed Abby's milk (she pumps it) via a feeding tube. You can see it (a thin green wire) in some of their pics. They are both still on an IV for additional saline water and some lipid emulsion (soy based fat) as well.
They are both 5 weeks old today (Sunday) and would have been 30 weeks along in development had they still been in utero. They are starting to get noticeably bigger. I even noticed a difference in the 5 days I was away. They are both starting to move their hands around more, and exploring with their sense of touch. When we hold them on our chest, they push their hands up into out throats, or grab our fingers all the time. Yesterday they were both quite alert, opening their eyes quite a bit.
That's about it for the last week. Here's a bunch of pics from the last few days.
Dillon frowning away on Mom.
Dillon sleeping
Madeleine stretching her arms and legs
Dillon all scrunched up while sleeping. Starting to look a little chubby in the arms.
Madeleine hiding from the camera.
Madeleine grabbing my thumb during kangaroo care
Madeleine with a clear face between tube tapings. Her cheeks are red from the tape being removed.
Dillon looking passed out. He likes to sleep fully stretched out.
A few vids as well. We will try to start shooting more of these as they are starting to move around more. First one is Madeleine coming off kangaroo care, and being put back in her incubator.
Madeleine stretching and a diaper change at the end (my apologies for the poop shot)
2 comments:
Omigod....whoever said "Ignorance is bliss" sure knew what they were talking about!!! I can't imagine what you guys were going through last week! I guess it's selfish of me, but I'm really glad I didn't know at the time...I would have been going crazy!
Bless her little heart...she is obviously going to fight her way through anything!
How can something that tiny be that strong???
You're so right though about them growing David...you can really see it.
The pictures are just adorable and the videos are priceless!
You have no idea how much I've missed my dailey dose of the Rivers family! I'm so glad you're back.
I'm sure Abby must be so glad too that you're back David. I couldn't imagine her going through that stuff alone!
Please give each other big hugs for me and special kisses to those beautiful wee ones.
Love you guys! Lil XOX
Well hello!!!
It is so very good to hear from you!! We really missed our daily blog of our favorite people!!
So sorry to hear that you had to deal with yet more set backs!!
I just can't tell you how much we appreciate how informative you are David & Abby it is just so amazing and beyond comprehension what the two of you, I guess I should say four of you have to indure daily!!
We are just so proud and amazed at every single detail, progress & set backs!!
Has there been anymore updates on when you will be able to come home??
Everyone here asks me daily about you all, you don't even know how much love & support you have here! My family is to funny, my Auntie Barb who has never ever met you signs into your blog daily & this past week that you were back in Vancouver David really concerned her and called Mom daily to make sure everything was ok??
I agree those little Angels do look like they have gained in the past week???
Have your ears been ringing??? My neice Jill & I have been talking about you this afternoon & we can't get over how much personality and good looks those babies have, especially considering how undeveloped they are!!!
Just want to hug & kiss them!!
Jillian has starting up her own Photography business and wants to do a photo shoot for you when you return home, she is just fabulous!!
Babies are her specialty!
If and when you have time check out her web site www.jilliankirbyphotography.com I am sure you will be impressed!!
She also has a blog.
Justlove the videos they just send tingles through my heart!!
I could hear you in the back ground Ab & it was good to hear your voice!!
So glad although in Edmonton, your at least all back together as a family!! I am sure Abby missed you while you were away David!!
Again please if there is anything we can do back at this end for you please let us know!!
I think I may have to try and call your cell again Ab, I would love to have a chat even if it is short and sweet!!
Well it was just great hearing all the progress good & bad as there is not a day that passes that you are not in our every thought!!
As usual we so miss you & can't wait to see you all!!
I can't even imagine how over whelmed you are going to be when you finally do make it home, I am thinking that this may be a positive thing that you are where you are?? They say everything happens for a reason?
Hugs, kisses & tons of love always coming your way guys!!
Larry & Kelly
xo xo xo xo
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