Sunday, November 25, 2007

Getting closer to coming home!

Apologies to all who are suffering from B.W.S. (Blog Withdrawal Symptoms). But some great news after a week of radio silence...

Madeleine has made it 24 hours on low-flow, without her Si-Pap machine! That means that both twins are now technically in level 2 ICU and could be transferred to a lower mainland hospital other than BC Children's. Starting Monday we will be working with BC and Edmonton hospital admin to try and get us moved asap. More on this as it unfolds.

Madeleine had an operation on both her eyes this week, to solve a problem that is fairly common in preemies. The blood vessels in the retina are not developed enough to handle the volume of blood that they are now getting, now that they are breathing oxygen air. As a result, if the operation is not performed, there is a strong possibility of the retina detaching, and permanent blindness. The good news is that this is fairly routine, and the operation only took about 45 minutes. They use a laser to "zap" the retina, and she was scheduled for 2000 zaps per eye, but they only had to do 600 per eye. She had eye drops for a few days, and still looks like she has a black eye, but has recovered fully. Dillon will likely have to have this same operation in the next week or so.

Madeleine is now in a crib, so both babies are out of the incubators and on room air temperature. She has a larger traditional looking crib, albeit made entirely out of metal (looks kind of like a baby Alcatraz). Now that she is off Si-Pap, they will probably move her to a little bassinet like Dillon is in.

Speaking of our perfect son.. he is now bottle feeding. Abby is jumping for joy, knowing that she can now get me to do the midnight feedings. He just started this today, after a few false starts. The nurses were very happy with how well he took to it, and how strong he can suck. For the next while, we will be working on both breast feeding and bottle feeding him, so he grows comfortable with both. We will start trying Madeleine on breast feeding this week, now that she is feeling better. Both twins still have the feeding tubes in (through their noses now), as this is still the primary means that they get their food.

They both had their first true baths in a bathtub as well. They both initially squawked at it, but once in the water and warm they each liked it, and did not fuss. Coming out in the cold.. that's another story. Lots of drama there. Each day we get to act more and more like regular parents, even if it is only for a few hours per day. We leave the hospital grinning like idiots most of the time these days. A long way away from where we felt 3 months ago. Yes.. as of this coming Friday, we have been here 3 months!

We've had quite a few visitors over the last week. My sister Heather was in town last weekend and spent some quality cuddle time with her niece and nephew. Abby's aunt Kim and her daughter Emily were in town this last week, and we had to beat them off the babies with a stick, as they spent more time with the twins than we did!

That's about all for now. We are having Internet issues here in the Hotel (its free, and you get what you pay for), so I am unable to post pics or vids right now. Trying to figure out a way to get them up for all to see.

Thanks everyone for the birthday wishes. Not how I planned to spend my 40th, but we will have a hell of a combo Abby Birthday/David Birthday/Thanksgiving/Halloween/Remembrance Day/Grey Cup/Babies coming home party!

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

How amazing Madeleine is! Really, she had all the worst problems and yet she continues to fight back - she is going to be one unstoppable amazing daughter!

More pictures please!!

love you all,
Jody

Kelly and Larry said...

Well Hello to you all!!
Wow sounds all so positve and exciting!! I am just trying to imagine your normal parenting looking grins!!! JUST TO CUTE!!
Those babies just astound me!!
How much more perfect can they be?
I can't believe it has been 3 months since you have been there!! It has all just been so overwhelming!
Well, I hope home is going to be for Christmas??
We will be waiting on bated breath to hear the date and of course we will be at your party with bells on!!
Happy Birthday David!!
Hope every wish comes true and I am sure we all know what you'll be wishing for!
We will be looking forward to more pictures that forsure!!
Just keep doing what your doing as you are "ALL" just "AMAZING"
Hope your enjoying the nursing Ab,and so happy to hear the Dillon has taken so well to it all!! Madeleine I am sure will be right behind him, kisses to dear little eyes!! Actually kisses all over to both of them!!
Love to you all, we will be checking in daily!!
Love you!
Kelly & Larry
xo xo xo xo

Unknown said...

Yippeeee...can't wait til' you get home. Great news to hear on how well the bambinos are doing. Happy belated bday david!
xo Jill

Anonymous said...

Hey My Darlin's

Just got back from a wonderful weekend with my kids at the Silver Reef Casino in Bellingham (where we also shopped our brains out) to celebrate my (gasp) "70th" birthday. It was so good to come home to such positive news !!!
I didn't know it was your birthday too David....HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!
I hope you enjoyed yours as much as I did mine!
It's hard to believe that you guys have been there for three months!
Doesn't time fly when you're havin' fun????
That little Madeleine is going to be one fiesty little lady, just like her Mom (bless her heart) and it sounds like Dillon is going to be the easy going sweetheart that his Dad is. How perfect is that?
No wonder you're grinning from ear to ear!
So looking forward to the day you say "We're comin' HOME!"
In the meantime, hugs and kisses to you all.
Much Love, Lil XOX XOX

Jillian Kirby said...

Hey Rivers Clan!
What great news!! Well worth the wait!!! Can't wait to hear that you guys are back in BC where you all belong and we're able to witness the dynamic duo in action!!
Missing the pics, but looking forward to your next post!
Take care guys and give the babes our best!
Jillian Kirby

Diane said...

Hi Abby & David,

Wonderful news! So glad your back David, those little ones of yours are truly remarkable & I'm so glad that they keep you both grinning. That's just as it should be!

Regarding breast feeding, there was an article in our paper the other day that said babies that are breast fed are more intelligent than bottle fed babies, so there you go, keep up with the breast.

Much love to you all
Diane & Colston oxoxoxoxo

Anonymous said...

Yeah! sounds like you may be on the home stretch at last. Glad to hear the op went so well for Madeleine and that Dillon is taking to the bottle. Looking forward to seeing the Rivers brood all together in one place - you guys, the bambinos and Sam the man.

Take care,

J

Unknown said...

Welcome home Rivers Family and how great that the babies are so close to home at Lions Gate..they looked great all bundled up in the incubator together -25 yikes! thankfully you got out of there. Enjoy settling in back home, I am sure that you are going to be having plenty of visitors welcoming you all home.

Take care

Candice

Anonymous said...

Hi Guys
Have been away for a bit and was so happy to get your great news! Congrats on being back in Vancouver :)) Now, the fun really begins! I am looking forward to seeing all of you in person. Will call when we get to Vancouver for Christmas. Take care. Niki and Mike xo

Diane said...

Hi Abby & David,
We've just got back from Wales after visiting with Sarah, Simon & Sarah's Mum Janice who's on a visit. It's the first time we've seen Sarah's little boy Aiden, he's a real little cutie.

I came straight to the computer to check the blog & was so thrilled for you . How wonderful to have the little ones back in Vancouver. It must be such a relief for you both, & of course the sheer pleasure of sleeping in your own bed at last!

Much love to you all,

Diane & Colston xxxx